Dear Brothers,


I hope this letter finds you well and thriving in your respective journeys. I wanted to take a moment to share my experience as a Standard Poodle owner and the profound impact my dogs have had on my life, especially during a challenging period.

In March 2021, just a week after the passing of my younger brother, I decided it was time to welcome a new companion into my life: my first standard poodle, Onyx. The grief I felt was overwhelming, and I was searching for healing in any way I could find it. Months prior, a group of close friends and I had navigated the shared realities of COVID-19, social and racial upheaval, and the many challenges life threw our way. In our discussions, we decided to take an online quiz that would recommend a dog breed based on our personalities and needs. To my surprise, I was assigned a Standard Poodle.

It felt serendipitous when I named him Onyx, inspired by his sleek black coat. The gemstone Onyx is not only beautiful but is also said to be a powerful stone for mourning, promoting harmonious relationships and emotional balance. At that moment, naming him Onyx felt like a tribute to my brother while also embracing the healing qualities that this stone symbolizes.

During the first year with Onyx, he quickly became my grief partner and road dog. We shared countless outdoor hikes, explored nature, and even embarked on an exhilarating cross-country road trip from Boston to San Francisco. Along the way, we met many strangers, and to my surprise, so many expressed their fascination with Onyx. Many had never encountered a Standard Poodle in real life and could only compare him to what they had seen on television. Each encounter reinforced how special this breed truly is.

Onyx wasn’t just a pet; he was a source of healing during a devastating time. His loving nature and unwavering companionship provided a comfort that I desperately needed. That realization dawned on me: I wanted to ensure that others—especially Black men—could experience the warmth and loving energy that a Standard Poodle can bring into their lives.

Reflecting on my journey with Onyx, I encourage you to consider the joy and healing that can come from owning a Standard Poodle. These dogs are not only intelligent and loyal but also incredibly loving and adaptable. Their presence has the potential to uplift your spirits, provide companionship, and even foster connections within our community.

If you’ve ever thought about adding a furry friend to your life, I invite you to explore the possibility of welcoming a Standard Poodle into your home. Together, we can share stories, experiences, and the love that comes from this wonderful breed.

Take care, brothers, and remember that healing can come in many forms—sometimes in the shape of a four-legged companion.

Regards,

Harold Steward

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